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Building Friendships For The Long Haul (Email #6)

We all (should) know that “magic bullets” don’t exist, right?

We’re smarter than that.

Magic bullets have no place when building friendships for the long haul, anyway.

… but do you know what?

Finally “feeling good about myself” is probably as close as I’ve ever got to experiencing “magic bullet like results”.

Building TRUE confidence is what (reliably) empowers you to fearlessly approach, talk to and charm those intimidating people

…the attractive, successful, interesting people who you may currently freeze up around.

To quickly recap on the past few emails so far…

1.) It all starts by caring about and liking yourself FIRST.

… eliminating the negative, limiting beliefs holding you down.

If we can just be real (and confident) in who we are, people respect us A LOT more. Despite our flaws and failures. (see Email #5).

2.) Rig your improvement system to re-route the negative fear patterns in your mind like I showed you in Email #2.

3.) IMHO “techniques” shouldn’t be the only focus of your escape from insecurity (see Email #1).

Always having stuff to say is fueled by spontaneous FLOW in the moment. And flow is an ABILITY.

… you gain an ability through “taking action.”

4.) Perception Patterning(tm) Exercises is where most of the magic happens. (Email #4)

It’s where you automatically build confidence and (high-impact) skills:

  • without the overwhelm of too many tactics at once
  • without pushing your comfort zone too far too soon
  • without needing to be fake just to try and fit in

It’s fun once you fully accept the challenge of exercises and start surprising people with your new boldness.

Create a shyness busting system that is “driven by action”.

… then layer on top of that new empowering PATTERNS of thinking to transform your PERCEPTION of yourself. It creates magic.

If you also want to experience the awesomeness of a step by step conversation & confidence system that produces exponential DEEPER results.

… then get Fearless Flow today, right here:

https://conversation-skills-core.com/read-or-watch-fix-hidden-psychological-glitch#whats-in-it

That links directly to the section explaining what’s in the course.

And if you’re wondering how quickly you’ll start to see results…

Well the honest answer is, it varies. But often, students report improvements in their confidence and social skills within weeks.

Like “Dr. V.”…

And Adrian…

And Ray…

I hope you’ve gained some useful insights from this email training series. Perhaps you’ll join us inside Fearless Flow today, and in a couple weeks I can look forward to YOUR email telling me how you’ve improved.

Kind Regards,

Dean

P.S. – In the end what we’re talking about here is being real

…true to who you are, yes.

But also, being real about what’s truly going to make you that confident, charming, social person you want to be.

It ain’t tricks. It ain’t memorizing what to say…

Sure techniques can help. But they help a WHOLE lot more with a genuine foundation of confidence backing them up.

We all know this instinctively. 

It’s easy to see the reason those charming people are so well liked.

Underneath the fast talk and witty commentary, they have “that thing.”

That vibe of self-assurance.

They believe in themselves. 

THAT is their secret. And you can have it too.

But it’s not instant. It doesn’t just turn on like flipping a light switch.

It’s a process. Takes a bit of time. But not a lot.

Learn the process here:

https://conversation-skills-core.com/read-or-watch-fix-hidden-psychological-glitch#whats-in-it

See you on the inside 😉

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